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Ethical Non-Monogamy
Open Relationships
Solo Polyamory
Non-Hierarchical Polyamory
Hierarchical Polyamory
Relationship Anarchy
Swinging
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ENM RELATIONSHIP TOOLS

Theory is sexy. Reality is messy. You agreed you could date others, but how does your stomach drop when he takes her to your anniversary spot? Or when she comes home smelling like someone else?
This simulator drags your abstract rules into the harsh light of day. We force you to confront the visceral, gut-wrenching scenarios that actually destroy relationships, before they happen. Test your nervous system in the simulator so you don't crash the car in real life.

The world of non-monogamy is a maze of confusing labels. Trying to be "Polyamorous" when your heart actually needs "Swinging" isn't just a vocabulary error; it’s a recipe for misery.
You can't build a stable home on a foundation that doesn't fit your psychology. This tool analyzes your emotional bandwidth and jealousy triggers to design the exact structure you need. Stop trying to squeeze into a box that doesn't fit. Build a relationship that actually feels like home.

Opening up feels exciting, but if you aren't reading from the same script, you're writing a tragedy. The disconnect between "I want freedom" and "I want safety" is where hearts break. This isn't just a quiz; it’s a synchronization engine.
We identify the silent gaps in your desires—from sleepover rules to emotional bandwidth, before they become unbridgeable chasms. Don't wait until the damage is done to find out you were never on the same page. Align your compasses now.

The fantasy is intoxicating. The reality? It can be terrifying. That sickening drop in your stomach when she leaves isn't just nerves; it's the fear of the unknown threatening everything you’ve built. Don't let vague agreements become grounds for disaster. You need structure before the chaos hits.
The Hotwife Contract Creator transforms your deepest anxieties about safety, emotions, and "going too far" into a rock-solid, signed agreement. Silence the jealousy and lock down your safety net so you can actually survive the thrill.

The fantasy is incredible, but the logistics can tear you apart. That sickening knot of anxiety you feel when she leaves isn't weakness; it's your brain warning you that you're flying without a safety net. Ambiguity is the oxygen that jealousy breathes. Don't let undefined "gray areas" become the reason your marriage implodes.
The Official Hotwife Rules Generator doesn't just list acts; it builds a protective fortress around your relationship. Get the concrete roadmap you need to ensure this high-stakes adventure doesn't turn into a disaster.