The Open Relationship Contract Generator Design Your Perfect Life. Design Your Open Relationship. Verbal agreements are for amateurs. Written agreements are for professionals. Answer 15 questions to generate your custom Open Relationship Agreement. Your Email Address Code sent! Check your email inbox and spam/junk folder. Enter 6-Digit Code Get Started The Lawyer Up Welcome to the negotiation table. Verbal agreements are for amateurs. Written agreements are for professionals. Let's draft your Terms of Engagement so you can stop arguing about the rules and start enjoying the game. Begin Drafting Clause 1: The Relationship Definition Question: How do we define our dynamic? Select... 👑 Hierarchical Open. We are the Primary couple. All others are Secondary 👫 Swinging. We play together as a team sport. No solo dating 🕊️ Relationship Anarchy. No labels, no hierarchy. Total autonomy Continue Clause 2: The Emotional Clause Question: What is the policy on falling in love? Select... 🚫 Hard Limit. Romance is forbidden. If feelings develop, the connection ends 🤝 Friends Allowed. Warmth and friendship are okay, but I Love You is reserved for us 💕 Unlimited Love. We are free to fall in love and build deep bonds with others ← Back Continue Clause 3: The Sleepover Protocol Question: Are overnight stays permitted? Select... 🕐 The Cinderella Rule. Everyone must be in their own bed by 2 AM 🗓️ Weekend Pass. Overnights allowed on weekends only 🌙 Free Roaming. Overnights allowed anytime, subject to calendar availability ← Back Continue Clause 4: The Veto Power Question: What is your ideal vision of non-monogamous sex? Select... 🔴 Unilateral Veto. Either partner can end an outside relationship at any time, no questions asked 💬 Discussion Required. We can express discomfort, but we cannot force an ending 🕊️ Sovereignty. Neither partner has the right to veto the other's relationships ← Back Continue Clause 5: The Disclosure Policy Question: Do you want to meet your partner's other partners? Select... 🙈 DADT. Don't Ask, Don't Tell. Ignorance is bliss ✅ Safety Only. Verify sexual health and physical safety. No other details 🥞 Kitchen Table. Full transparency. We share stories, names, and experiences ← Back Continue Clause 6: The Barrier Protocol Question: Should you be able to stop your partner from seeing someone specific? Select... 🛡️ 100 Percent Usage. Barriers required for oral and penetration with everyone, always 💑 Fluid Bonded Primary. Barriers with others, fluid bonded only with each other 📋 Test Based. Barriers optional if the new partner provides a clean panel ← Back Continue Clause 7: The Testing Schedule Question: How often do you want to engage with others? Select... 🤒 Symptomatic. Only if something feels wrong 📅 Quarterly. Every 3 months, regardless of activity 👥 Per Partner. Before every new sexual partner ← Back Continue Clause 8: The Hosting Clause Question: Your partner comes home from a date. What do you ask? Select... 🚫 Exclusion Zone. Never. Our home is our sanctuary 🛏️ Guest Access. Yes, but not in our shared bed. Guest room only 🏠 Full Access. Yes, our home and bed are open to guests ← Back Continue Clause 9: The Blacklist (Exclusions) Question: Who is your Emergency Contact for emotional support? Select... 🧹 The Clean Slate. No exes, no friends, no coworkers. Strangers only 👥 The Inner Circle. No close friends or family. Acquaintances are okay ✨ No Restrictions. Connection is connection, regardless of who it is ← Back Continue Clause 10: The Financial Liability Question: Why do you want this? Select... 💳 Individual Liability. You pay for your dates from your own personal funds 🎉 The Fun Fund. We use a shared budget for lifestyle activities 🤝 Communist Style. All money is shared, spend as needed ← Back Continue Clause 11: The Digital Etiquette Question: What are the rules for dating apps and texting? Select... 👻 Ghost Mode. No photos of face on apps. Discreet browsing only 📱 Open Book. Public profiles allowed. Texting allowed at home but not during our date nights 🌐 24/7 Access. No restrictions on app usage or texting times ← Back Continue Clause 12: The PDA Clause Question: Public Displays of Affection with others? Select... 🚫 Zero Tolerance. No holding hands or kissing where we might be seen ✈️ Tourist Mode. PDA allowed only when we are out of town/vacationing 🌈 Public Freedom. We do not hide our connections. PDA is allowed anywhere ← Back Continue Clause 13: The Crisis Protocol Question: What happens if the primary relationship is struggling? Select... 🛑 The Emergency Brake. We immediately close the relationship to focus on us ⏸️ The Pause. No new dates, but existing relationships continue at a maintenance level ⚖️ Parallel Processing. We fix us while continuing to date others ← Back Continue Clause 14: The Travel Policy Question: Are vacations with others allowed? Select... 🚫 Embargo. No trips with others. Travel is our special thing ✅ Approval Required. Trips allowed for special occasions with prior discussion ✈️ Open Skies. Travel with anyone is permitted ← Back Continue Clause 15: The Renewal Date Question: When do we review this contract? Select... 📅 Monthly. We check in on these rules every 30 days 🗓️ Quarterly. A serious sit-down every 3 months 📆 Annually. We review the state of the union once a year ← Back Generate Contract Download Open Relationship contract template
