The Beginner’s Manual to Open Relationships (Instant Download)
$9.99
Ready to explore open relationships without wrecking what you already love about your life? This beginner friendly manual gives you structure, scripts and safety nets so you can try ethical non monogamy in a calm, adult way.
Youll Learn How To:
- Figure out whether open relating actually fits your values and needs
- Bring up the idea without your partner feeling ambushed or replaced
- Create boundaries, rules and safety plans that feel fair to both of you
- Handle jealousy and insecurity with body first tools and simple frameworks
- Navigate time, calendars, dating apps and safer sex with multiple connections
Whats Inside: plain language explainers, reflection prompts, conversation scripts, jealousy tools, time management guides and practical sexual health support you can use right away.
Perfect For: ENM curious couples, thoughtful singles and anyone who wants more freedom and honesty in their love life without unnecessary chaos.
You are curious about opening your relationship, but you also like your current life, home and shared Netflix profile. The Beginners Manual to Open Relationships: I Cant Believe Its Not Monogamy is your starter kit for exploring ethical non monogamy in a grounded, drama reducing way.
Instead of theory that sounds good on podcasts and collapses in your living room, this guide walks you through what open relationships actually are, how they differ from cheating, swinging or polyamory, and what they look like in real life when bills, kids and work calendars are involved. You get plain language explainers, not jargon.
Why this guide helps
Opening up goes wrong when couples rush in with fantasy level expectations and vibes based rules. This manual gives you structure. You learn how to talk about curiosity without your partner feeling replaced, how to name your fears out loud, and how to design agreements that protect your existing bond while making space for new experiences.
- Turn late night what if chats into a shared vision you can both say yes to.
- Build boundaries and safety plans around sex, emotions, time and information.
- Work with jealousy and insecurity using body first tools and clear language.
- Talk about safer sex, testing and privacy without turning it into a shame spiral.
- Use simple check ins and debriefs so each step feels intentional, not like a chaotic slide.
How it makes your life better
This guide helps you protect the core of your relationship while you experiment at the edges. You will learn how to pace yourselves, how to use shared calendars without turning into each others project manager, and how to decide together what kinds of connections are on the menu right now. There are scripts for bringing up the topic, for saying no kindly, and for pausing the experiment if either of you feels overwhelmed.
You also get support for dating apps, ENM friendly spaces and first dates, so you are not figuring everything out in front of strangers. Sexual health, emotional safety and future you are treated as priorities, not afterthoughts.
Who this is for
This manual is perfect for couples who feel that monogamy does not quite fit, but who still deeply care about each other and want to do this carefully. It also works for curious singles who want to understand open relationships before they step in. If you want more freedom, more honesty and more aligned relationships without unnecessary chaos, this is the field guide you start with.