The Essential Guide To Solo Polyamory (Instant Download)
$9.99
Want multiple loving relationships without giving up your keys, autonomy, or alone time? This guide gives you structure, scripts, and safety systems so you can do solo polyamory as an intentional life design, not an accident.
Youll Learn How To:
- Write a Solo Ethic and one page contract that explain exactly what solo means for you
- Build layered consent for identity, relationships, events, and in the moment signals
- Handle jealousy, attachment wobbles, and burnout with body first tools and calm scripts
- Run calendars, booking rules, and vetting so your time, health, and privacy stay protected
- Navigate money, housing, parenting, and community while staying firmly non nested
Whats Inside: plain language explainers, solo vision exercises, consent and testing templates, vetting questionnaires, jealousy and regulation routines, repair agreements, and real world situations with word for word responses.
Perfect For: solo poly folks, polyamorous people who never wanted a shared household, partners of solo people, and clinicians who want a clear, adult framework for this style of relating.
You love connection, but you also love your own space, keys, and calendar. The Essential Guide To Solo Polyamory is your practical manual for having multiple caring relationships while keeping your life, home, and finances your own.
This guide treats solo polyamory as a deliberate structure, not a personality quirk. You will learn what solo poly really is in everyday language, how it differs from classic polyamory or open relationships, and how to explain your choices without apologising. Autonomy, consent, and care are the backbone here, not chaos.
Why this guide is worth it
Most solo poly people are not short on desire. They are short on systems. Without clear agreements, you end up overcommitted, under supported, and constantly firefighting other peoples expectations. This ebook gives you an operations playbook so you can enjoy your freedom without burning out.
- Turn vague ideas about being solo into a clear written Solo Ethic and one page contract you can share with partners.
- Design consent architecture that covers identity, relationships, dates, and in the moment signals so nobody is guessing your rules.
- Use jealousy and attachment tools tailored for solo people, including body first regulation routines and pocket rescue scripts.
- Set up calendars, booking rules, and weekly check ins so your time actually matches your energy.
- Vet new partners with structured onboarding so your autonomy, health, and privacy stay protected.
How it makes your life better
Instead of winging every conversation, you get copy paste scripts for consent, testing, boundaries, repair, and even therapist intake calls. There are templates for solo contracts, pre session readbacks, repair agreements, thought audits, and quarterly reviews. You will know how to pause a scene safely, how to repair after a wobble, and how to use a shared pause word when emotions spike so you stop before you say something you regret.
The guide also walks through money, housing, parenting, and legal basics for solo people. You will see how to keep finances clean, how to navigate co parenting as a solo, what to do about emergency contacts, and how to protect your job and family from involuntary outing. Community sections help you build chosen family and support networks so you are not carrying everything alone.
Who this is for
This guide is ideal for people who already live alone or plan to, for polyamorous folks who never wanted a nesting partner, and for anyone who wants deep relationships without merging households or bank accounts. It is also useful for partners of solo people, metamours who want to understand the ethic, and clinicians who need a reference that treats solo polyamory as a valid, adult choice.
If you want to be both independent and deeply connected, this is the handbook that shows you how to do solo polyamory with clear systems, solid ethics, and a nervous system that can actually keep up.